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*rhit1007
writes:I've had a theme this year of hooking up with girls that have boyfriends. Obviously, if I know, I don't really pursue anything... she cheated on him, why not on me, right? However, that won't stop me from messing around with those girls.What about you? Do you mind hooking up with guys or girls that are in a relationship... assuming you're single, or not? Reply to this Question
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reader, Justtryingtohelp  +, writes (16 March 2011):
 Well 2 men before have completely left out that they had girlfriends when they kissed me or something, and I felt absolutely awful about it.
I don't like knowing someone is being cheated on is going to get hurt/is being hurt. I would hate to imagine that my boyfriend was getting with another girl, it would hurt me so badly. So I'd never purposely go with a man knowing he was in a relationship and being unfaithful.
That's just me though, you're a free agent and choose to do what you want.
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reader, StarLover2 +, writes (16 March 2011):
 I am in the same situation right now. There is this guy that has a girlfriend but yet, i am still messing around with him. i do not know if i should stop and tell his girlfriend or not, but that is not the point. you should stop doing that because if you mess around with some girl with a boyfriend and fall in love with her, you can get hurt because she loves the guy she is with. she might be just messing around with you because her boyfriend does not give her what she wants or just because she does not know how to tell her boyfriend. Most girls do have a problem messing around with guys with a girlfriend but they still mess around with them just because they do not know how to let the guy down. Or at least that is how i feel.
i hope this helps you.
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