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writes:Okay ; ijust need to know if idid the right thing.Ibeen talking to " AR " for about a year now. it may be too early, but ifell for him HARD. IConsider him my first love. Right now, he's in newJersey and I'm in Florida. Well, a couple months ago, AR told me that he found someone. Sounds childish, iknow ; but hear me out. Well, him telling me that hurt me alot. AR then told me that he had sex with her. That obviously hurt me like crazy.they ended up breaking up. He now told me that he got back with her. Igave him O3chances. Iusually leave a guy after their first mistake, but ithought he was different. ( iwas wrong ). He blew all three chances with me. Itold him that whatever we had, it was officially done. I've never been more hurt in my life. Icried, and cried, and cried. Ibelieve in the saying that says ; if you love someone, let them go. If they return, they're yours. If they don't, they never were. It hurt so bad, but ihad to let him go. Did ido the right thing with that decision ? Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not really upset about him having a girlfriend or anything. Imean, we never really dated. What I'm upset about is the fact that he had to wait untill iconfronted him and asked him about it. He never told me straight up what was going on in his life.
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reader, sam44  +, writes (15 March 2011):
I am sorry but forget about that troll, he is not worth it at all. You deserve better... keep away from him even if he decides to come back! From waht you said.. he doesn't love you and doesnt have any respect for you... move on with your life. you will find someone better and worth it. Goodluck
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