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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: To put it simply, Me and my boyfriend have had sex quite a lot of times, but i have not once had an orgasm but i told him i have :/ what am i doing wrong? Why is it not pleasuring me? And should i mention it to him?
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (16 March 2011):
Sex is not that good because neither of you have very much experience yet.
First of all. You need to know your own body before you can tell someone else what you like. And you can't be shy about it.
2nd. Man on top positions do not "hit the spot" enough to bring 90% of women to orgasm.
3rd. Lots of oral, (for you I mean)
4th. Experiment on yourself when you are alone, figure out what you like and then you can show/tell him what to do next time. It helps to moan when they are doing something right, because it encourages them to keep doing it.
5th Sorry but....Some woman have their first child before their first orgasm with a man.
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