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30-35,
*aela
writes:Ok, now i've come to a dilemma. I'm 16 years old but I consider myself mature for my age. I was with my ex for nearly five months and I loved him up until the very end when i felt smothered and ended it with him. He didn't take to this very well and naturally was very angry at the time. He lives quite far away from me and we both have exams approaching so the relationship was difficult.After the break up I regretted my decision extremely and went into small scale depression. When I told him how much I missed him he put it past him like a breeze. He constantly started fights with me and found any excuse to verbally abuse me. I knew this was merely out of anger for ending the relationship in the first place.After two months of feeling sorry for myself and making a series of attempts with him I gave up, for the sake of my own health. So I started talking to this guy I met at a party and after two months of flirting and meeting up with each other he asked me out and I was thrilled at the time because I was sure I liked him.I am still with this guy after a month .. I like him but in comparison to my previous relationship what we have is nothing. We have fun and he makes me laugh not to mention the fact that I find him extremely attractive. Recently, I have started to miss my ex again, so much that he isn't off my mind and thinking of what we had kills me. Even writing this is bringing a tear to my eye .. I don't want to hurt the guy I'm with now and every one is telling me that if I'm patient our relationship will grow. And the relationship with my ex is so complicating but there isn't a day goes by where he doesn't cross my mind. Basically, I miss my ex so much that my current boyfriend can't make me happy though he has the potential. What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): well i know what your going through. i'm like that right now, but i'm currently single. Anyways i tried talking to my ex and all he said was, ''i don't love you anymore i never **** did. i love this other girl now!'' And i got sad and said, ''You know what? Fine. And this other guy asked me out but i said no.'' I say you should wait a couple of days before you start dating again. Yes it might be hard. You are 16 you chould wait for mr.right. There is young love and there is just really like the dude. There is married and have children love. etc. so take my advice. i promise you this will work: you should go out and hang with the gals, forget about dudes for a while and have fun! hope this works :)!
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