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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now, and he harldy ever rpelies to my texts, I find it quite annoying, Sometimes i really need him to because i'm feeling down and need cheering up or just want to check if he is okay. How can i ask him to reply to me more often? Or just mention that it upsets me?
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (17 March 2011):
 A few more details would help us better answer your questions, like...
How many times a day do you text him?
Did he use to respond more then he does lately?
How is the relationship going otherwise?
With knowing more about it all I can do is share with you the secret I have learned to having a successful relationship.
My favorite 3 little words from my guy is not
I love you, it is
I will be there.
And he is every single time I really need him. But you can't abuse it or take advantage. If it is something you can take care of yourself then do so.
No one like a whinny, clingy girl, not that I am saying you are. But there are only 3 main reason for him to be ignoring your texts.
1# you text when he is busy, at school, or work, or with friends.
2# You text too often or for silly reasons (to him)
3# He is losing interest in the relationship
So if you want him to respond more, text him less often and only when you must. He should notice you are not contacting him as often. This is your chance to see if he cares enough to wonder why and text/call you first for a change. Guys like the chase, remember that, you always have to leave them wanting for more.
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