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*obert3417
writes:my girlfriend knows that i struggle with depression and low self-esteem, she has the power to make me feel good and the power to make me feel awful, and she does both! im confused and it doesnt help me when she verbally assaults me like she does once in a while! why does she do this to me? it really messes me up and i love her with all my heart! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011): Sounds like you need to give her the heave-ho. Nobody likes to be verbally assaulted, and it's certainly not doing you any good! For your own well-being and recovery, make plans to leave her. If this is too difficult right now (depression does this to people), enlist the help of a friend, family member or professional. It can be done. Good luck to you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011): True. Because you give her the power to treat you this way. To disrespect and to undermine you!
Granted, you love her but the question is;
do you love yourself enough. Enough to want and to have someone that is sensetive towards your feelings, does not demean you
and respects you?
Think about it... Your happiness is paramount. No matter what!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): Because you give her the power to treat you this way....you have your own power stop giving it away.
spunky monkey
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