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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have the BIGGEST obsession with a male teacher at my school. He is gorgeous. I now have to chance to explain my story, so here goes.It all started on Tuesday 9th September 2008, when we had our first lesson of music. When I stepped into the room and saw his face, I felt a really good feeling. Throughout that lesson, I had to keep looking away to stop staring at him. So the first lesson was over. As the year went on, I kept staring at him more and more people started to notice that I had feelings for him, so I admitted it. Then one of my friends went straight outside, where he was on duty, and told him. I was so scared for the next lesson because I thought he might question me about it, but he didn't, which was fine. Then I did the most stupid thing ever, I sent him an email. All it said was hi. To put this short, the teacher who dealt with it said not to do it again. The lesson after that, he ignored me completely. Then, as time went on, my feelings got deeper. He didn't mention it, not once. Then it was time for summer. I thought YES, time to get away from all this, but it turned out to be devastating. I cried almost every day of those 6 weeks. The hardest day would be my birthday, because he wasn't there and I missed him so much. Then year 9 came around, and I thought it was time to have a fresh start. But when I saw him again, I still had the same feelings. A year has passed since then, and I still feel the same. Also, a couple of weeks/about a month or so ago, I lost my memory stick and another found it and found pics of him on it, and said to be careful. So now i'm officially classed as 'obsessed' with him. Even though we do talk, it's not as often as it was. also, whenever I try to say hello sometimes or smile at him, he doesn't acknowledge i'm even there. I really don't know what to do. People have said I should get counselling, but I'm not sure. Thanks for taking time to read this, and I hope you can offer me a suggestion, because I don't want him or me to get into trouble or even arrested. Amy 3 Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, but it still didn't help. Sorry. I'm still as obsessed with him (even more so!) as ever. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): At the end of the day, your still very young. You might feel like you like this teacher but the feeling will hopefully pass because there is a pretty large age difference and he's your teacher. It makes it awkward for teachers when they have students that like them, thats probably why he hasn't talked to you as much(don't take offence to this as he's trying to help you), but try not to let your feelings get in the way of your education.
Your feelings should pass and maybe try to show some intresting in some guys your own age to help you get over your crush on your teacher.
I hope this helps :)
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