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female
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anonymous
writes:My husband lies to me constantly. I am sick and tired of accepting his lies because he does love me. I am sure of that. I can't stand a liar. He lies to me because he doesn't want me to get mad at him. I am to the point that I feel it is necessary to just develop a life of my own without him. What do I do?
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reader, TEM +, writes (8 February 2011):
 What is it he doesn't want you to get mad about? Is the reason you get so angry because you make plans based on the information he gives you? Once you learn that things are not as he says they are you have to change your plans?
You need to find out what it is that he doesn't feel comfortable about telling you and why. Explain to him how his lies are impacting your life. That pleasing you in the short run is not preferable to the anger you feel when you find out you have been duped.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (8 February 2011):
 Tell him that you're sick of his lying! Yeah! Be blunt and say you've had enough!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): Maybe he lies to you because you get very mad when he does tell the truth?
Sorry if this may not be what it is at all, but it happens.
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