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writes:As with my previous posts, my sons mum said she will never take me back. yet.2 weeks ago i was in the gym, fully prepared to try and move on, ive been doing much better of late, well im there and this really attractive woman sits nearby, i went up to her and said wow your stunning, hope you dont mind and and gave her my no. well that night we exchanged texts, turns out she is my ex's half sister and in the 7 years we was together never heard or met her sister due to a family issue. well my ex found out and went mental, called me sick and said id done it on purpose, completely untrue.now the ex keeps inviting me round, and weve started having mind blowing sex once again which we always did have, yet she still says we probably arent getting back together, and admitted she still loves me (after all my sexts and flirting)today i was at work and she asked me round for T with her and the kids if i wanted, so of course i wanted. went round, then she went upstairs for a bath, i got texted, need you upstairs, went up there and we screwed once again, spent hour with the kids, then as i was leaving she handed me aload of food she had bought me when she went shopping as im really short of cash after job issue last week. she keeps going on my fb, checking wot im doing asking about certain women and other things.people what should i do, im trying to remain calm and not presuming she will take me back, but i pray this is the case, even thou she has insisted in the past she doesnt, she said last week cant we just meet up and screw when we both need it, not what im wanting at all. i dont wanna be alone and without her or my kids, should i say no more rude business and take back the control again. really not sure, any advice or thoughts would be greatly appreciated, lee
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reader, Worried64  +, writes (9 February 2011):
Hey I agree with the first post and the last you guys need to set some ground rules and try remember what made u guys so good in the first place take it back to talking spending quality time together as a family and as a couple maybe try going out to tea and enjoying each others company without the MIND BLOWING SEX!! if that dosen't work maybe u need to move on and find someone that will appreciate you whole heartely Good Luck
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 February 2011):
 I agree with the first poster, but I think that the two of you need to think straight and define what it is you guys want. Mind-blowing sex might need to stop for a while, because, well, it blows your minds.
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reader, tby1 +, writes (8 February 2011):
tby1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i have said i want us or nomore and she says i cant resist her and will come running whenever she asks. point being true. im addicted to her, i adore her and have always loved her and always will but im wondering if she keeps seeing me she will notice the change in me, and theres been afew, which is why she is wanting me round again. can she change her mind and want me again and can i make her do that or even fall in love again, cos thats the clincher
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