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writes: My head hurts so much its actually affecting my college work. I know i sound like a schoolgirl but this is all over a guy.I starting talking to him around christmas and he was always keen texting me first and sitting with me and my friends round college. It was clear to everyone that there was a mutual 'liking' between us but nothing ever really progressed than flirty texts. Last thursday i went round to the place where he lived, and he kissed and he was so caring asking if i was cold and saying my didnt care if my hair was a mess (it was raining!) The next day, friday, he never really spoke to me and i put this down to shyness of what had happened the previous night, we were with friends as well and they saw us getting close. Over the weekend i also got ignored which i sort of took offence too, i ended up texting him really late on the sunday night and he seemed fine and blamed the lack of communication on me not texting him first, when he hadnt answered my previous text. i let it go anyway and this past week he has been ignoring me still, although he looks at me constantly around college, i always catch him. he hardly speaks or comes over or texts and i just dont know what to think. its clear that i like him, and my friends are really worried as im overthinking everything, i cant help it i wish i could just forget it and carry on and see how it goes but everytime i see him my eyes and thoughts are glued to him. I end up giving in and texting him first and his replies are ok, when i do get them. he seems pretty laid back with it all but i cant help but think he doesnt care. its like he changes infront of his friends/ in college or something. i really like him and i dont want to waste my time, i cant really ask him about it without coming across as a nag or frightening him off. If he doesnt ask me to go round his again this thursday do i take it as he's not interested, he usually suggests something. sometimes it feels like he doesnt care or he regrets getting involved with me, or maybe i am just overthinking this way too much! i'm so stressed out please help me!
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