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I think we have spent too much time together and now I'm afraid he is getting bored with me!

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Question - (8 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2011)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have been in a relationship with this really great guy for a month, being with each other is like drug to us and we couldn't help but spend almost every single day together for the past month. I remember going a day or two without seeing him and we both missed each other terribly. It all sounds great but here comes the problem: I think by seeing each other so often we have already used up the 'honey moon period' and now everytime we meet up we almost have nothing to say anymore. I know that we still like one another very much, but I'm afraid of him getting bored with me... when I asked him if he wants to cool off for a day or two he always says no and that he loves seeing me, but his attitude is definitely less passionate than before. So I guess this question is for guys mostly, when things cool off like that does it mean you like your girl any less? Or is it simply that the relationship is becoming a routine? I guess neither is good but at least I can just spend some time away from him if it is the latter, right? =)

Thanx for anyone who replies!!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011):

People will probably tell you that yes, it's a terrible thing, spend more time apart. But me and my boyfriend have spent pretty much every single day and night together for over the past year because we can't get enough of each other, and we're both moody when we're apart. We still have loads to talk about, and the passion is undoubtably still there. Every couple is different.

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