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female
age
36-40,
*elomat
writes: My husband and i live with his dad, his mum is in england, she's been there for 10 years now. She comes back occasionally. The last 4 years father in law has a girlfriend he's been seeing. December, mum comes back for xmas. Girlfriend comes to the house to cause trouble but mum and brothers in law beat her up. Mums holiday ended and she went back. Dad now goes back to the same woman. When confronted by my husband he denies the affair but texts in his phone indicate the opposite. My problem is that mum now phones me and questions me on this issue. If this girl cared about him should she be causing so much trouble. Should i confront him about the issue since i'm now caught up. I don't want to look like a snitch.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 February 2011):
Yeah, this is definitely something you DON'T want to be in the middle of. You can try telling her how uncomfortable you feel being put in the middle of this. This is a very messy situation that I don't see ending well for anyone. Can you and your husband find a new place to live? That way you're not as valuable of a spy.
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