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writes:I am a 25 year old woman, who's working and I'm in a relationship with a 21 year old boy. We met about 8 months back, when I was on holiday and at the time we met. I had just broken up with my previous boyfriend of 5 years. It was love at first sight for both of us, we dated for the next 5 days that I was still there and had great sex. I had to go back to work and we continued calling each other, until we set another date to see each other again. When I went for the second time, I just didn't feel him anymore and we stopped calling each other. The thing is I can't stop thinkin about him, I think the thing that turned me off the most was our age difference, but I've come to terms with that now and I want him more than anything. To top it all off, he recently called and said he want us to continue where we left off. He hasn't been with anyone since he met me. Pls. help me, I don't want to do anything rash that'll make me look like I'm desperate.
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reader, Older woman +, writes (11 February 2011):
Older woman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, I'll sure take your advice into consideration. Afterall I'll never know, if I don't try.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): Clearly this is your first time dating a younger person... It's really not a big deal. It depends on both of you;
How you feel about each other and ofcourse, whether you are compatible and comfortable with each other!
I do hope though for both you sakes that you not just on the rebound with 'lover boy' because you've just ended things with your old flame and you just wanting someone to 'soothe' you of your pain, because then if that's the case - the consequences could be detrimental! Keep that in mind..
All the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): Clearly this is your first time dating a younger person... It's really not a big deal. It depends on both of you; How you feel about each other and ofcourse, whether you are compatible and comfortable with each other!I do hope though for both you sakes that you are not just on the rebound with 'lover boy'? Because you've just ended things with your old flame and you're just wanting someone to 'soothe' you of your pain? Because then if that's the case - the consequences could be detrimental! Keep that in mind..All the best!
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