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writes:Hi, I am looking for some help and advice.My girlfriend who I was happy with decided to split with me we have been best mates for four years and we broke up because of stuff it was my fault, not hers really.She is now with my best friend.I want her back, Ive tried but she says she's happy.Were now still mates but I really love her and miss her.I want her back, how can I achieve this?
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reader, Love1616  +, writes (9 February 2011):
If she hurt you and went to your BEST FRIEND I don't think either of them are worthy of being on your good side. Friends just dont do that. Just let her go because she's not worth the hurt. You need to figure out if she is what you want and find out what your willing to give up for her. Will you give up your friendship with your best friend for her? If she doesnt like you and you get back together she's most likely gonna dump you again then you've lost both of them. Let her be and find someone who is worthy of telling you that they love you every day. Best of wishes!!
Sincerely,
Love X)
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reader, Wheeler +, writes (9 February 2011):
 I agree that you probably are not going to be able to get her back. Maybe some time in the future, like years from now, but not anytime soon.
In fact, there is really no reason to be spending time figuring out how to get her back. Focus instead on letting her go, and getting back to a good place in your own life.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 February 2011):
You want a woman who stabbed you in the back and went to your best friend?
My friend, you need a crash course lesson in how not to accept bad treatment from people. If it's any good to you, you're not the only one who's been treated this way. My ex went back to her ex on my birthday once. So I decided not to let people treat me like that again.
You've got to see past the rose tinted glasses here - this girl dumped you and moved on to your best friend.
1 - What woman does that unless she has planned it for some time.
2 - What kind of friend does that?
Also, she has said she's happy - meaning there is no way to get her back.
Don't waste your time on people who are willing to treat you like this, or you will forever be a doormat to people. Accept she is gone, take some time out and move on from her. There are better girls out there
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