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*anielcrucy
writes:I am a healthy guy of 21.bt each time i wnt to have sex with my gf i always cum quickly b4 5mins.i am confuse i dnt knw what to do and i dnt wanna loose hes cos i love her so much..pls can some one help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, answerlessdreams  +, writes (9 February 2011):
Perhaps try using a condom- if you are not using one currently. It deadens a lot of sensation. The other reason it could be so soon is cause of too much foreplay. I think you should talk to her. Open up channels about anxieties etc. Get comfortable with each other sexually. That will increase the time of "fireworks" quite a bit. Also the more you have sex, the more you get used to the feeling - If this is the first months or so of starting intercourse. Last but not least - RELAX, not everyone is 100% all the time.
If you do loose a girlfriend cause of that reason - she is pretty shallow to begin with.
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reader, lovegame  +, writes (9 February 2011):
if she loves you it wont matter to her.. she will support you and help you through. many men have this problem, some techniques i have heard is thinking of other things to take your mind of cuming or even pulling out before you cum and doing some foreplay on her until you calm down a bit, then get back into it! you can always talk to your doc about this as well! doctors do great things trust me! good luck!
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reader, bcindyfree +, writes (9 February 2011):
Hello. I read your post and I thought I could offer some insight that may help you. I am a psychology student and studied sexual dysfunction disorders. What you are experiencing is premature ejaculation disorder. I believe that is the correct name of the disorder but I do not have my text book in front of me, sorry! I would suggest going to a doctor and telling the doctor your symptoms. Do not feel embarrased this happens to many men. Also sex therapy and behavior counseling may help in treating your condition. Therapy works with a man to correct irrational thinking that goes along with this disorder. I wish you the best and I hope this information helps. Have a great day!
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reader, $izZle  +, writes (9 February 2011):
 hi,
don't worry sounds like you are suffering from anxiety you need to learn to control it :S hey! w8 a min I never had sex ... damn haha hope it solves your problem :P try meditation or exercising anything that helps you calm your senses .... I mean stay in control I hope you know what I'm saying :S
good luck anyways...
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