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writes:Is this girl flirting with me? We are in the same classes at school and we see each other a lot. I have noticed she touches me more than other people (like during a conversation she will put her hand on my shoulder). She also said something that was odd the other day. I offered her a mint, just to be polite cause I was having one. She took one, then later she said "How much do you like me?" She left a pause to wait to hear what I would say. I honestly didn't know what to say and I said what do you mean? She said she wanted to make sure I liked her so she could ask for another mint. I am not sure if this is proof of interest or not. I try not to show I am interested in people as I don't want to seem desperate. She is a girl I would definitively date, but I want to be sure she is interested.
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reader, Love1616 +, writes (9 February 2011):
Well if your gonna ask her out don't you DARE do it in a text. I've been asked out in texts and I find it EXTREMELY disrespectful! So when your with her try and get her by herself. Tell her that she's absolutely amazing and you just need to be with her. And you MUST do it on Valentines Day it'll be absolutely sweet and give her a candy heart that says I love you on it if she says yes. Best of luck, I'm sure she'll say yes!
Sincery,
Love X)
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell here is an update. A few class mates and I (includes her), went to a place to eat. We had an SUV that seats 5 people - 2 in front and 3 in the back. Well the girl(the one I think is interested) didn't know I was coming and sat in the front. I sat in the back with 2 other girls from my class. Well I noticed that on the ride back - she got in the seat so that when I got in the car I would be sitting right next to her. I dont know if that matters or not, but with all this stuff happening I am guessing she is interested. I texted her and she responded almost immediately.
I guess the next problem, is how to ask her out....
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (8 February 2011):
 I think she is definitely flirting. Body language says a lot and ,if she is not the touchy-feely type, yet she does touch you more than she touches other people,...it means something. Also the mint thing- a joke, but sort of coy.
How deep this interest really is, well, that's all to be verified, because there are also people that flirt ... because flirting it's fun ,that's all. But she sounds at least interested and encouraging enough that you can give it a try without looking desperate or delusional.
And , allow me... but don't always play it so safe ! You are young - and nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you like a girl, unless you are positive that she already hates your guts, -just try your luck and ask her out. The very worst that can happen is that she says no, and I can think of many much more
unpleasant things than that that may happen in life !
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (8 February 2011):
I don't reckon we can tell better than you whether this girl is interested in you or not. I would recommend you show some interest (you don't need to seem desperate) in her, if you really are. It's better being rejected than never asking for a date at all.
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reader, Love1616 +, writes (8 February 2011):
Well the mint thing my friend actually did something like that but with my phone (?) lol but it doesn't necessarily mean she likes you, my friend that did that is gay so haha ya. But on the other hand with the physical contact it could mean she's flirting with you. Just ask her if she wants to hang out some time. She can take it as either a date or just hanging out. Either way you'll learn more about her and maybe youll be able to ask her out. Remember the human brain isn't a race, it doesn't exist to be predicted. If you want to know how she feels, ask her. No matter what she says life will go on, hopefully with her! You just have to figure out what you want and what you would sacrifice for it and then go out and get it! I wish you the best of luck!
Sincerely,
Love X)
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