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writes:Last year, I started dating my best friend. He was amazing and such a gentleman but sometimes he was just too nice?! He was so careful with me and we never even kissed so we ended up just staying good friends. Over time, his confidence around me has really improved and he’s no longer scared to flirt with me or tease me which is great, some kind of reaction to show he’s interested is all I ever wanted from him! We have started talking a lot recently about the past and its obvious he isn’t over me and I don’t think I am really over him either...The problem is, although I come across as innocent and sweet I am a lot cheekier than most people realise and I do love it when guys openly flirt with me and my friend isn’t too great at that. His mates recon that if I was to flirt with him he would happily join in but I want him to open up on his own! Just being around him makes me happy and if he were a bit more confident with me it would be perfect! Is there anything I can do or say to make him more confident with flirting with me? Or am I going to have to kiss him like his mates suggested?!
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reader, ashley187  +, writes (9 February 2011):
 I think that once he feels more confortable around you, he will let you know how he feels. He may not be the type to just knock you off your feet the first time you're together. Don't rush into things. Be friendly and see where it goes. I'm very old school.. so I think the guy should make the first move the first time.. for sure! :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (9 February 2011):
 Well I guess he probably doesnt know what to do as you both are not together anymore, and maybe he is shielding himself from getting hurt. Ok so you admit he has become more confident which is great. But he cant read your mind therefore he has no idea how you are feeling. Remember flirting works both ways. So I think that yes you should flirt with him and see how he reacts. Goodluck.
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