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I still love a boy I dated 3 years ago... but he is my ex's best friend!

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Question - (13 February 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay, 3 years ago I had my first boyfriend he broke up with me after 3 months and I still feel like I am not over him. Its crazy! In the 3 years since we broke up I have had 2 serious relationships one of which was with his close friend, we were together for over a year I recently broke up with him because I did not feel the same about him. Since the split I have not been able to stop thinking about my first relationship! I am dying to tell him how I feel but can not pluck up the courage to tell him I want him in my life! Also I do not want my recent ex to find out I have feelings for his friend, I feel like the world will reject me, my family also do not like him as I was only 15 and he was 17 when we first went out.

My recent ex still loves me to bits and it will tear him apart knowing I still love my first ex, but I hate living in this misery, every time I see or speak to my first ex there is a stabbing pain in my heart that I have never ever felt through anybody else before! I don't know what to do! Is it really possible to still love someone after 3 years, and if you were only with them for 3 months and didn't even sleep with them?!??

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