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writes:So I been talking to this guy for about two weeks and he is wonderful. I am 18 and he is 30. we met up and hung out then the second time we met up we had sex. but when we were done we didn't talk much. It was kind of awkward. He later texted me and said that the age difference was bothering him and he wants to go on a couple more dates before we make things official. He also said that we need to talk more because we were mostly silent. I really don't want to ruin things with him we are supposed to get together tommorow. So my question is how do I hold a conversation with him? what do I ask him and what are me topics to talk about because I really don't know. I don't want to loose him over lack of conversation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): I say just start off with some small talk and work ur way from there. Pop up a few like/dislike questions. Find at least one thing in common and go on from there. Who knows it might and and your conversation might expand. It works for me at least.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 It sounds like you are going to be a little tongue tied anyway, so try and loosen up, even if you go for a walk together, you can at least find something to discuss in the scenery .... or lack of it.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you Aunty Bim Bim...hopefully tomorrow we can just let the conversation flow...there can be more to our relationship than sex if we just work on it.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (13 February 2011):
Well, it seems that he feels you both should know more about each other, so you could start with what you do doing the day, perhaps chose a movie together, or find out if he likes to read books, or what he likes to do on weekends. If there is nothing there but sex the relationship wont have a chance to grow .....
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