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36-40,
anonymous
writes:What is the matter with my sex drive?I consider myself to be a pretty sexual person. I'm 22 and I've been sexually active for over five years. There have been times where I've struggled to maintain an erection during sex, which put me in a negative state of mind. I'm usually able to get out of this mind set by taking some Zinc, because I know that Zinc for some reason or another is good for sexual performance.Anyway, during my teenage years I felt practically like i was sex obsessed. I craved it. My sex drive was through the roof. Whereas now, I seem to have cooled down. Sex with my current girlfriend is amazing, in fact she's the best I've had without a doubt, but yet I still struggle with my erections sometimes. She's 19 and has a VERY high sex drive, I find myself unable to keep up. She also likes to send dirty texts but while sometimes I'll in the mood for responding, some nights, much like last night and tonight, I'm really not.Why is that? There are times when I really want to be sexy and have sex but sometimes I'm really not in the mood. I used to think you could put yourself in the mood at the drop of a hat, but that doesn't seem like the case any more. Is something wrong with me? Could it be a hormonal imbalance or something? Or am I worrying for nothing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): I wouldn't know how to answer your question about why you just have your off days since I'm a female- but I do wanna tell you that i sext my bf all through out the day and if I found out that he was just pretending to be into it on the the days he wasn't in the mood I would be really hurt and probably blame myself for not pleasing my boyfriend all the time. Anyway what I think is...You should open up to her about whats going on lately with this little problem your having. I'm pretty sure if she loves you she'll understand and maybe that closeness you both bond from talking to one another and doing new things to enhance your sex life could be the cure to your problem. Good luck. Xoxo
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