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I'm not sure why my girlfriend won't swallow!

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Question - (13 February 2011) 6 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2011)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend won't swallow during oral sex, yet she has in previous relationships, in fact she said she used to like it. I'd really like her to do it to me. Why won't she? Can she really like it with past partners? Can I make it taste better?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2011):

Why worry about how it tastes when she hasn't even swallowed yours yet?

Her refusal with you has nothing to with taste, and everything to do with how highly she values pleasing you compared to her exes.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2011):

Miamine agony auntlol.. olderthandirt has a point.. A 69, you both doing oral sex on each other might solve the problem. Make sure you orgasm first, and if she won't swallow, then you stop and she doesn't orgasm...

Talk to her first though, she may have had bad experiences that you don't know about.

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A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (13 February 2011):

olderthandirt agony auntyeah, mix it with her drippings and both of you go down on each other it's messy but yummy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011):

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She has never done it with me before,and I'm very hygenic! I do have a good diet too, but I do eat a lot of nuts. However she has never let me even cum in her mouth. Yet she has with past partners.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2011):

Miamine agony auntSwallowed and used to like it...

Are you hygienic, have a quick wash before sex.

Probably she doesn't like your taste.. Eat a good diet, cut out the alcohol and beer, lots of fruit and veg.. I think fruit is especially good, cause it tastes sweet. Cut out nuts, produces too much sperm. Chicken rather than red meat.

Swallowing sperm is not about love, otherwise porn stars wouldn't be able to do it with 100 men at once. We each have individual chemistry, maybe in this, your chemistry and her's just doesn't work.

Tell her again that it bothers you, and that your going to change your diet if that will help in any way. If she can't swallow, then holding it in her mouth and then massaging it into your skin should help you to feel less rejected.

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A female reader, Blonde68 United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2011):

Blonde68 agony aunt

Has she swallowed for you before? If so, I can only assume she doesn't like the taste.. Or it may be that yours is rather thick in texture, or the quantity that you produce is too much for one sitting!

Have you asked her why she doesn't like doing it to you?

You ask if you can make it taste better - Well I have known it to taste different depending what you men have been eating but I couldn't advise you on how to change your diet to suit your partner!

Unfortunately you can't force someone to do something they don't like... I was actually in my 30s before I did anything of the sort, but I did it purely because I loved the guy.

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