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Are my boyfriend and his sister a little too close?

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Question - (13 February 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend and his sister are really close. Too close actually... They touch each other more than he touches me! He jokes around by asking her to make out with him a lot. I know that they have been drunk together alone before. She is 15 we are 17. Is it possible they don't know they are related when they are drunk together? I don't have a brother so I don't know how close is too close for a brother and sister. They've seen each other in their under wear a few times I'm sure. He has never kissed me or his last girlfriend but his sister has done a lot of stuff with a lot of guys. Is it possible they are too intamate with each other? I don't know what to think! His sister is my bestfriend. Tell me what you think!

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2011):

Miamine agony auntI think your boyfriend is young and doesn't know how to give you the attention you want. I think you are feeling lonely and jealous and are making up strange stories in your head. Nothing you say sounds abnormal or strange to me, and I don't have brothers or sisters, I only have cousins.

"They been drunk together"? What does that mean? I been drunk with my mum and drunk alone with my dad... should I be contacting the doctor or going to see the police.

You got a big imagination young lady, you read too many strange books or watch funny things on TV. The reality about incest is, if they were having sex they wouldn't touch, they would find it hard to laugh together, they would be no light sex talk going on, because they would feel ashamed and guilty. People who practise incest are very carefully not to look at each other or touch each other in the day time when people are around.

She's your friend, go tell her your boyfriend is shy with you and you'd like to get closer and get some kisses and light touching happening.. She will know how to approach him best, not because she's sleeping with him, but because she's known him all her life.

Also have a word with him and tell him it's ok to kiss his girlfriend. If he's too shy to understand that, I think you should just jump him.

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