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writes:For a long time now everyone has been telling me to get with a particular boy. This morning he told me he loved me, but we are really good friends. I dont know how I feel. We are already good mates and have gone out with friends a couple of times before. It is Valentines day on 14th and I'm scared he might do something. Any advice? All my friends think I should go out with him, but now I actually have to choose.I'm not so sure... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much! i told him and it worked out. turns out he was using me to get with my friend.
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reader, Abass Abassi  +, writes (13 February 2011):
i think you are between love and like and somewhat confuse if u love him or only it is like. but i think u like him and not love. my advice will be tell him clearly that u don't love him and he is only ur friend, dont tell him lie if u don't really do. at the end it will hurt u both, coz u wont have that connectivity which u tell him.
now the choice is urs, give him a positive signal if u really love him but if u only like but doesnt love then no need to give a green signal but instead tell him clearly that he is only ur friend and u don't love him. it will surely hurt him for the moment but soon he will realize that u said for the good.
best of luck dear
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reader, Shelley Harris +, writes (13 February 2011):
 Hi,
I wonder if the answer is in your post, you should not do something because other people are telling you too. You must do it because YOU want to. No-one knows how you feel except you, follow your heart. Do what YOU think is right.
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