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writes:To cut a long story short, me and this girl we went out when we young, like 12/13. Then we went out again when we were 16 for 7 months. We've been broken up for 6 months. It was all a mess and I still like her. We didn't get on for a while but now we do. We talk a lot. On New Year we kissed and the party before that she wanted to kiss but she was way more drunk than I was. The past few parties we've been pretty close but I didn't want to let myself be hurt by her doing this to me. I don't think she likes me anymore but just see's me as 'fun' because she knows she can get with me. I think she thinks that I'm over her but she doesn't know this. But then again she's too smart not to and I assume her best friends who I'm quite close with and talk to them about how I feel will let a few things past to her. So tonight, we had both been drinking a little bit but we weren't drunk. Maybe slightly tipsy if that. We were sitting on the couch and then we get close and she like grabs my arm and makes it so its around her and we're like cuddling. I'm getting mixed messages here. I don't want to tell myself that she likes me when its 99% that she doesn't and is just being her flirtatious self. Any idea what I do/what this means?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 She also has a history with you, and I'm sure you're around her at these parties, making you the closest to throw herself on. What kind of mixed messages is she sending while drunk? Like drunk girls are totally aware that they are even sending messages.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHmmm, but in our group of friends there are loads of other single guys she could do this to, but it always happens to be me. She often brings up the good times we had together and stuff. Though last night we weren't drunk at all, just tipsy at most. It's just strange that she has these mixed messages. We do hang out sober, not just us two, but when we're sober we still get on really well. Thanks for the reply btw.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 February 2011):
At that age (I remember those days fondly), she's drunk and latching onto any guy who happens to be giving her attention. That being you. So these drunken mixed messages, are the alcohol talking.
If you really want to find out if she wants you back then you need to hang out with her sober. Also, it wouldn't hurt to tell her you would like to get back together.
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