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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So I have been with my bf for almost 3 years now and I am 6 months pregnant. Well not to long ago I met this amazing man! Turns out he is my third cousin. But we have been talking ever since. I don't even have feelings for my bf anymore. My cousin just makes me feel sooo amazing about myself! And my bf never makes me feel like that. We are soo in love now, my cousin and I! He wants me to leave my bf and come live with him. But I don't know what to do cuz not only am I scared of what our family will think but I want to do what's right for tha baby! Is it wrong to be in love with your 3rd cousin?? Please help..
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): Okay, it's not the end of the world. You will have a lovely beby what ever outcome. You need to ask your self what do you want. And what are the possible out comes of each situtation. I has happended to lots of people before, they have met long lost relatives and fallen in love. But love is not always the case (I am not saying it definatly isn't for you though) people have gotton confused over their feelings and have ended up making the wrong desision. If you do choose to make it with your 3rd cousin you must make sure you have a stable relationship with you current boyfriend. He is the baby's father and he probaby still wants to be envolved with the baby. Just keep tallking.Your family yes you want to please them, but you need to make yourself happy first. I am sure they will come round in the long run. Especially if there is a baby envolved.Just do what you think is best, just make sure you do all that you can to make the right desision! Hope this helps! x
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