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I'm getting feelings again for my ex but she has a boyfriend now!

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Question - (13 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *lexanderhan writes:

Ok, right. I'm 17 and I'm a lesbian, I have known since I was little and I've no doubts about my sexuality whatsoever. Anyway, I found my ex girlfriend on a website a couple of weeks ago and we started talking again. I met up with her and her boyfriend (bare in mind she's bisexual)and then she stopped at mine the other night to catch up on what's been going on in our lives since we split up. Later on we were playing truth or dare quite late into the night because we were bored and neither of us could sleep. One of the dares was to kiss each other (yeah, I know, bad idea!). we kissed each other kinda passionately with tongues but I pulled back because she has a boyfriend and I felt really bad for kinda coaxing her into it. I could tell she wanted more and I did too but she's in a relationship right now. I wouldn't let her sleep on the couch, not because its not comfy at all and its pretty cold in the living room so she slept in my bed with me. I think that was a bad idea too because I'm starting to get feelings for her again. A lot. What should I do, should I tell her?

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A female reader, Drat001 United Kingdom +, writes (14 February 2011):

Why in the heck did you play truth or dare? The only reason she would have played it with you is if she wanted to do something naughty; meaning she's intending on not being faithful to her current BF. Clue, clue, clue!

Like Alexxmo said, if she's so quick ot cheat on her BF with her ex, don't think for a minute she'd hesitate to cheat on you with someone else if you got back together with her.

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A female reader, AuntyAlexxmo United Kingdom +, writes (13 February 2011):

AuntyAlexxmo agony auntAn ex is normally an ex for good reason.

If she is willing to forget her boyfriend so easily then keep it in mind that she could do that to you too.

If you really do have feeling for her and feel the need to tell her then do it, but keep in mind that she does have a boyfriend so you may not get the response that you want.

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