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writes:On a recent trip out of the city with my sports team, I realized I had a major crush on this guy. Now thing is, I barely met him this year and we're not close but we do talk to each other. I don't know if I'm reading too much into this, my wishful thinking kicking in, or what but I notice him looking at me a lot. Like, we'll be sitting in a bus on chairs across from each other, and when I'm talking to someone else, or laughing and I look over to him, he'll be staring and we catch eyes for a while before he looks away, or I do. I'm also worried he likes my friend instead. They've known each other longer, and they hang out more. Plus, he acts more...friendly with her. Like, I'll put my legs on his during the bus ride, he'll let me, but he'll avoid putting his arms on them. But then he'll lean back onto her arms, which are swung across the seat. Am I looking too much into this? Or .. help.
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reader, HKR29  +, writes (14 February 2011):
I think the action to take here is to stop over-analising situations because it can become unhealthy, not to mention usually incorrect. There could be a million reasons why he didn't put his hands on your legs - he could really like you and could have felt shy about touching you just in case it made things awkward?!
Why not try talking to him more or getting closer to him? Ask him about his family or friends and see how he reacts to that? Try and have more personal conversations or alone time and if he reacts like he doesn't like you then its best to leave it at that.
From my experience if a guy really wants to be with you, he will let you know.
Give it some time and try not to be too over-analitical of his actions.
Hope this helps.
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