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anonymous
writes:Since I was 15 i've been with the same guy on and off and I love him. But the last three years we've had trouble. He moved to America to do his degree which caused a lot of issues between us. Some on my part because I had trust issues and hated him leaving after he visited home. Which I regret and now we get on much better. His family knew we were having trouble and they blame me claiming i'm "crazy" (which I'm really not I just think I was a bit immature and my feelings were muddled). They live close to me and every time I see them I get nervous and feel sick because I know they don't like me. I get really upset about it because I feel like they've completely judged me for unjustified reason. I don't know why I care so much about what they think of me but it REALLY bothers me. I am always very interested in his family and what they are doing and I don't know why, I feel like I am completely beneath them!!!We are getting on better and he is returning to the UK in a few months. But I don't know whether or not to go back to him and I don't know how to deal with his family if we do get back together. I've never really seen anyone else properly and if I do get back with him i'm scared the i'll regret the decision and end up upsetting him because i'll want to be single.How do I know if he's the one for me? We're both young but we do love each other and getting back together would be quite a serious decision after 3 years of him being away. I've been thinking about whether or not I want to be with him for the last 3 months but I still have NO idea what to do because the situation is so complicated.Help!Thanks.
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reader, kblade  +, writes (14 February 2011):
u should just forget about him and move on.. im assuming u r around 20 or younger.. you are still and young have a great life in front of u.. just go crazy, socialise see whats out there, make friends trust u will meet plenty of better guys out there and u will realise soon that uve been missing out..
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): I think you should stay single, this boy seems to cause you a lot of misery that you can do without! You are young. I think you should stay on your own, concentrate on your education, and friends having a good time. Don't feel pressured into doing anything you don't want to do!All the best.
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