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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello all. As I sit here writing this I feel pain, hurt, im emotional and a billion other things.Me and my boyfriend of 4 years had sex like 1 hour ago. It seemed to being going good until I got ontop of him and I felt like he was just sitting there bored out of his mind. While we were having sex he got mad because I accidentally hurt him during(scratched him). He was angry but I see it as not a big deal. He then got up and left and then shortly texted me after and said "I am not attracted to you anymore" This really hurt my feelings. I don't know what to say anymore. That reallly realllly reallly hurt. please help i love him so much. im dying inside.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): Yeah, he's got some serious mental conflicts going on about your relationship.
He's not mature enough to deal with it the right way.
Or, he's getting back at you for some reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): I have a short fuse for bullshit so maybe my advice might not be good unless you're like me. He would never see me again and if he did find me I would call the police on him and file harrassment charges. I don't play.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 If it's been a four-year relationship, there is something else going on. He was already having issues. And for whatever reason wasn't man enough to tell you about them. Whatever happened during your last encounter, that was not what made him leave.
What you're feeling now is completly understandable. His timing sucked, it was amazingly insensitive. But this has been coming for a while. Don't associate the sex with the break up.
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