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writes:I really need some advice. I met this guy 6 weeks ago and he absolutely blew me away. It was like love at first sight. We exchanged numbers and went on dates and it was amazing. He was amazing. He was like the perfect guy for me. Until he told me he worked 300 miles away and was moving there. He said we could carry our relationship on long distance, but a few days ago he called and said it wasnt working for him and he didnt want to do it anymore. I understand that. But I am absolutely and utterly devastated. I dont get why I feel like this when I dont know him really. But from the minute I wake to the minute I go to sleep he is on my mind. I am so upset that I cant be with him I could almost cry. Now, I know that this sounds kind of weird. Thats why I dont get it??? What on earth has happened to me? I know its obviously not love, and Im just in lust but the feeling is so overpowering and I cant think about anything else. Will anyone please help me get him out of my head. Ive already deleted him from facebook and my phone, I know its a bit harsh but it probably wouldnt help me in any way staying in touch with him. I cant get over him. All day today I havnt thought about anything else. Is this even normal?
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reader, riya_rulez  +, writes (14 February 2011):
hey girl !! he wasnt meant for u and it has happened for the best.. atleast he said the truth instead of keeping you in the dark.. LDRs need lot of maturity and unless two individuals are such of the fact that they can survive without seeing each other every second day, they shouldnt step ahead ! its nt a good idea to sulk on valentine's day,girl !!go out with your friends.. watch funny movies.. pamper yourself . basically keep yourself busy !!best of luck !
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): you have built a mountain from a mole hill. he wasnt right for you.
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reader, Esme7655  +, writes (13 February 2011):
Ok, first thing, call your friends, and spill the beans on how you're obsessing over this guy, hopefully they will encourage you and then you and your girls get all dressed up and go out! Have fun, meet other guys. Sometimes we meet an amazing person for just a little while---- male or female, young or old, and they just blow us away with their awesomeness. That is what this guy did to you. Now you take those feelings of when you first met, and remember them fondly, and do it all over again with a new acquaintance. Easy peasy.If you want to cry it out, that's ok too, but don't dwell on it. It was fun, while it lasted. Take care xox
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): You probably got a bit ahead of yourself and maybe had plans in your head about a future together with him. Now it's over reality has broken through.
Like you say, it's not love but you obviously liked him a lot and there's nothing wrong with that.
You did the right thing by removing him from your Facebook and deleting his number, that was a brave thing to do. You will get over him but it's going to take time.
Try not to sit at home moping or dwelling on it. If it was meant to be it would have been. You didn't know much about him and he might not have been as perfect as you think.
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