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writes:Why do girls NEVER look at me? At work, when I'm out, my mate's friends, sister's friends, whoever. No girl seems to give me a glance, or at least they don't want me to catch them glancing. Some look and when I see them they look away. Is this shyness on their part or because they don't like me? Why do girls do this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): A lot of useful things have already been said but I'd just like to add, when I'm with a hot guy I find it very hard to talk and it helps if I don't look directly at him :P so yeah it could definitely be flirting.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): "No girl seems to give me a glance"
"Some look and when I see them they look away."
You just contradicted yourself. They do look at you and it's pretty normal to look away when someone has caught you checking them out. Of course they look away otherwise you might catch them staring at you. Or they could be looking at you to see if you're still looking at them.
Just remember you're the man, it's no use having girls look at you if you're not going to do anything about it. It's more important for us guys to act than to sit around looking for a girl that's looking at us. It's a waste of time and it means nothing. There are a million reasons for a girl to look at you and most don't know how to show interest in a look anyway. Most of the time when girls look at guys it's too see if he has noticed her and not that she's interested, just that she's attractive enough to be looked at by guys.
I once had a girl pretty much stare me down for half a night in a club, I went over and talked to her thinking she was interested and she pretty plainly just told me she was staring because I had a snot hanging out of my nose, which I did.
Don't waste your time looking around for women to look at you, let them do that, they don't like being caught looking because they don't want to come off as ogling. Our job as guys is to make things happen, not sit there wondering if women are looking at us.
If you want a girl you like to look at you then go over and talk to her, that way you have all their attention.
Really your question is a waste of time. If you want girls to look at you then dye your hair purple and get a huge tattoo on your face, they'll all look then hehe.
Look it takes an adonis of a man to have women stare at you and not care whether you see them staring, most women like to be discreet when they check out guys they like.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (3 September 2010):
First off...How do you carry yourself?? I don't mean what you are wearing… but your personality. Are you a happy guy, or do you work around like you have to weight of the world on your shoulders?
Do you smile at people before they smile at you? Do you say “hi” or “hello” to people in general? What are you social skills like?
As a man, I stay away from women and men, who never smile, always seem mad, and have nothing positive to say.
If you are waiting for people to be nice to you for no reason…You will be waiting a long time.
Always make and hold eye contact, always smile at people you look at. Happy people attract happy people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): From what you have said it is clear that girls DO look at you. You say they often look away when you look back at them. I tend to think that is shyness, or perhaps a form of flirting. You like the look of a guy, you catch his eye, you quickly look away...I think a lot of women tend to do that. But then it could be nothing. They may simply have looked in your direction and happened to look away just as you look at them.
I think that, instead of trying to analyse what it means when someone looks at you, it is better to just be friendly and open towards them. So if you see a girl looking at you, and you would like to try getting to know them, why not try approaching her and saying hello? You will soon know from how she responds whether she is interested or not.
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