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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: I know this guy who I like and likes me, he's really nice and good looking, but he's really insecure! he's not insecure about his apearence, but more so himself as a person... how can I get him to see what I see in him?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 September 2010):
The point AskOldersister says is a really good point. When I was younger, I was really underconfident. So when I was 10, I joined a Tae Kwon Do club. Now I'm a lot more confident (I'm 22 now). So maybe if he joins a few sports clubs, or does something he's good at he'll start to grow in confidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): Well to be honest, I know how he might feel, that you may be to good for him, and that he is not good enough for you, maybe to a point where he believes that you may just cheat on him. I think what you can do is always reassure him of your love. I dont know how because as I said even I feel that way with my girlfriend. But I hope this could help you better understand what he may be thinking.
PS, if he listens to a lot of heartbreak songs.... thats when he is in his deepest hole.
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