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female
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30-35,
*imisoph3
writes:theres this guy in my class that i really like.we always make eye contact and he smiles.i got a new hair style and when i came back he smiled and said that he liked it alot. But now he has a girlfriend and he hasnt really made any eye contact with me but today in class he kept looking at me then turning away then at the end of the class period before leaving to go to another class i saw him looking at me i looked back he looked for about 2 seconds and looked at the teacher back at me then his friends and i turned my head back and that was itthe girl he is going out with he seems like he likes alot whenever he sees her his like a little kid in the candy store the girl is a real B she has a new guy every week.my question is how do i make him notice me? how do i get him to look at me like he used to? cuz i know before he ever went out with her he was into me now i feel like maybe he isnt? wat do i dress,or do to make him notice me..by the way dont say just be yourself because i am funny and a complete dork but when it comes to being in class i have a serious look and maybe thats what makes him think twice about me? pleas helpp
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): Back off and wait for this to blow over, because it most likely will. Then he won't feel guilty about looking at you any more. Then, go for it. Dress your best, style your hair, keep your makeup light to nonexistant (guys hate heavy makeup). Smile, initiate convo, flirt, brush his arm when you talk to him.. Get close to him. Chase him. But right now, he is taken so he is off limits.
If you do steal him from the other girl, then you'll just be waiting for some other girl to come along and steal him from you. Stealing is no way to achieve anything lasting or real.
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reader, shapoopsy +, writes (4 September 2010):
 Dear Mimisoph3, The good news is that it sounds like this "B" holds very little potential for anything lasting. For some reason, males go gaga for gals like this and I'll give you one hint: It starts with s and ends with ex! Some girls are so deeply needy that they seduce guys that are spoken for or attached. She likely stole his attentions away. It happens, but what does this mean for you?
Any guy that is "stealable" is not sincere deep in his heart. I'm sorry. It would be wise to conceal your hurt around her and maintain your dignity around him. Don't get too caught up in trying to figure out the meanings behind his looks and speech. You deserve a guy who has you in his heart and wants you in his arms! Peace, ~Shapoopsy
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reader, DearMe  +, writes (4 September 2010):
I agree totaly with CaringGuy. It would be so selfish to steal another girls boyfriend. Wait till he is single again. Then you might not even have to try as much, because he will take more interest in you anyways if hes single.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 September 2010):
Sorry, but he has a girlfriend. It would be very bad of you to try and steal him away again. You missed your chance with him I think. Until he is single, you can't really touch him. After all, if you steal him from this other girl, you won't be any better than her.
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