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*eavensAngel
writes:I can't believe I'm going to ask for help on my problem.I met a guy from My Space back on the 4th of Feb. We hit it off fast and great. When I met him he had over 1,000 females on his page and most of them wasn't the decent looking type. We started talking on the fone. The thing about that, for 6 months I paid for his cell mins to talk to me. He was living with his sis and her family . He couldn't get a job, etc. I kept asking him to please get rid of his MySpace as after being on fone with me at night, he would say he had to go to b.r. What he would do would be go on line and add other girls or answer messages or send gifts. Fineraly after we had broke up so many times over this, he said he deleted it. I have seem him on web cam, talked to his mom. He is 42. And built so muscled. His family and him like to go to bars. He has like a magnet that draws females big time. He has told me many many times that he has never felt like he does about me with any one. We have tried many times to visit all to no avail. We sleep on the fone all night together. Yet I still don't trust him. He has a great personality. When he's alone he wants me on fone all time yet when he's with a friend.. like he's now staying with friends building them huge decks. he calls me just before bed. We have fone sex but it has changed a lot. First it was me and him, now he's bought fantsy ppl in it. I have been staying home a lot. He didn't want me going out. Now hes saying I should be going places. We had talked about spending our life togeter and all we wanted. Now, last night he said.. it's better to have phone then be together cause you don't have to get a divorce, just hang up the fone. Yet he will say he needs me in his life. I think he wants to break up what ever we have yet I feel i'm just being strung along.. i'm soo confused. I've never felt this way told any man. My heart is breaking every min. I know we will never meet. I have tried every way. He's about 800 miles.I'd never trust him as what I went thru with all his so called friends on My Space and who knows where else. Please help . I had to leave out a lot of important things, some good, some bad. Also i sent him 100.00 and he was suppose to sent it back 2 weeks ago. he paid other ppl. he owned, not me.. helpp please?
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reader, HeavensAngel +, writes (5 September 2010):
HeavensAngel is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well I did it. I ended it. He was with friends last night and didn't call me until almost noon. Then the lies. Then didn't call back. So I texted and ended it. He didn't seem to care.. tHANKS FOR GIVING ME THE LIL BOOST i NEEDED. i KNOW I'M GOING TO BE UPSET AND CRYING LATER!! TY..
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reader, HeavensAngel +, writes (4 September 2010):
HeavensAngel is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for taking time to read. I know you are right, just hard to do it. I think that 's the reason he wants me to start going places now. So we will drift apart. When we argue and break up, he's always been the one to come back the next day or two..I think we both know it will never work. I just can't say bye.. thank you again!!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 September 2010):
I personally think you and the other 1,000 women are all being played and used. This guy is a user of women. I think you would do better to cut him out and find a guy who will actually be a part of YOUR life, and not just make you a small part of his.
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