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writes:ok am 15...and i move with one of my 20 year old cousin becuz i got in a fight with my mom. so i came to live with her and i met her bf, (sorry) but he is cute anyways and their going 2 have a baby but I've been noticing that my cousin's bf likes me cuz (idk maybe is just me) but he tries 2 touch me,(nothing bad). Example my hands, my shoulders, my hips. He always asks me questions about my ex bfs/about me and the big clue is that last time he told me that he dreamed that he was kissing me. Look he is cute and i'll take a shot with him, but if he wouldn't be my cousin bf. I just don't know what 2 do.. I don't want 2 fuck up on my cousin, after all she's done 4 me... Should i put a stop 2 it, or should i continue?? help me??
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010): my dear, your cousin saves you from providing a roof over your head and you make a play for her man. how very hospitable you are. they are going to have a baby , they are in a comitted relationship and you have no right to encourage this man. maybe he wants you to pay for the board by opening your legs and from what you have written you have no problems with this. you seem to be a trouble maker and a problems. sorry. first issues with your mother and now you are playing with your cousins man. maybe you need to get the hell away from your cousins life and stop trying to steal her man. you are only 15 yeat you have n qualms trying to take another womans man. maybe you like playing aroung but please do not mess with this man. he is taken, he is going to be a father soon and you have no respect for your cousin. is this how you repay her? having inappropriate touching and sexual conversations with her man? perhaps learn to have respect , both for yourself and others as well. maybe just maybe your mother needs to yank your sorry *ass back home where you belong and give this couple a break.
this man just wants to get into your pants and you are giving him the "i'm avaiable to do anything" sign. 15 years olds should never be homewreckers in the making. sorry just doesnt work. i may soun d like i am blaming you but realistically, allowing him to touch your (whether innocent or not) , that thing about the kissing. why are you not putting a stop to this? why are you tolerating and accepting this.
you said, "Should i put a stop 2 it, or should i continue??" continue with what? your cousins man? if you want to start off becoming one of the cheap girls then continue or have some self respect and cut it off . totally
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reader, DearMe  +, writes (4 September 2010):
What ever you do dont get involved with him, that will ruin your cousions trust and friendship and family relationship with you. It would be so selfish. Especially with a baby on the way. Be more distant towards him. Maybe talk about otehr boys you like to your cousion in front of him. Dont let him think your interested in him. Or if anything should happen you would ruin your cousin's life. Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): I doubt ge sees you more than a sisterly figure to be honest as you're so young
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (3 September 2010):
 Just be as friendly towards him as you are to your cousin. Don't let him feel like you're giving him any special treatment. Touching hands/shoulders isn't to bad, but if he touches your waist or hips just gently move out of the way. If he asks why you did that just say you thought he was trying to move past you or something. If he comes on to you, tell your cousin. It might just be wishful thinking on your part, you're living with this cute guy... anything that seems friendly is a sign he likes you.. You can't be sure of his feelings or the reason behind his actions so just be normal but don't encourage any flirting. It might just all be innocent, it might not. At this stage you can't be sure, just be normal. xxx
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