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30-35,
*ittlest.devil
writes: he told me he still has feelings for me. but their mixed feelings. he still has photos of us kissing on fb but he sais we will never go out again. all i can say is wtf? yes he has been on fb since the break up and yes he has changed his about me on fb (which used to be about me) so why wold he leave those photos up if he wants to get over me sooo badly?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): Maybe he just doesn't sentimentalize. I know many people who have pics of them with their exes on FB even well into new relationships. I mean, FB is a chronicling of life, that happened in his life, why should he get rid of them just because it's over? That doesn't mean it didn't happen. It means he isn't mad at you and he doesn't think you're disgusting. He's not embarrassed to have been with you, so he will show the world that at one point he loved you. I think you should be proud of that- it means you're a good enough person that he didn't feel the need to immediately hide you away and start badmouthing you and pretending like you're the worst person ever and he never liked you or you were the worst decision of his life or a blind spot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): Sweetness he is using these photos just to show off, obviously! Ask him to remove them, because now you are being 'used'. If he refuses then report him to the police for posting your private photos online without your permission. He will then remove them like the coward he is. Emily
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reader, DearMe +, writes (4 September 2010):
Some people do just leave the photo's on, Why delete them there only photo's right ?? He might just not have thought about them etc.... But when me and my boyfriend broke up i knew i still loved him so i kept all of the pictures, untill i knew wether it was over for good. So he might still like you, and dosnt want to get rid of the photo's yet. But that dosnt mean that he will get back with you, he just will delete them in his own time. But he could also be thinking of getting back with you. Or dosnt know what will happen between you two. So untill he is ready to move on and meets some one new, he might just keep them.
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