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*quirrelsniper58
writes:This girl I like just went back to college and she is having a hard time and I think I should send her some flowers to show her I care about what she is going through and I care about her wellbeing and it might send the message I like her more than a friend but I'm just a guy who is too shy and has never been good with girls so I would really like a female perspective. Should I send her flowers?
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reader, sdg  +, writes (3 September 2010):
it is a good idea..but i think that you should even go and talk to her about the problems she is facing currently..it would make her feel good also i think..if you are shy so think about what all you can talk to her about make yourself feel comfortable and then go to her and politely talk to her forgetting all the hesitation you have while talking to her...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): I think it is a lovely idea, but it depends on how well you know her. Do you know her well, or not really? Have you spoken to her before? If you know each other, then I think the gesture would be fine, and she would probably be touched to receive the flowers and to know that you care. But if you don't know each other very well, flowers might be a bit much, and she might wonder why you have sent them. In that case, maybe you could just send a card instead, saying that you know she is having a hard time and you hope things improve, or whatever you would like to say. Again, I think it is lovely that you care enough to do something like that.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 Yes :-)Thats a lovely thing to think of. Peronsonally I love flowers and looking at them makes me happy.If shes having a rough time then anything you can do is a help. Dont send anything like red roses though. Send something bright like pink and white or oranges. Good luck :-)
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