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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I used to date this kid Mike but he dumped me two weeks after we started. I was sad but had another guy Adam who was there for me. So after talking to this guy Adam who talked to me for a month. We started dating and im so happy with him. Yet mikes been calling me and begging me to call him. He claims that he loves me so much well he had his chance and im much happier with the boyfriend I have. Every time I get my ex out of my mind he says I love u and call me. He’s been calling me everyday almost and I don’t want to talk to him. Sure a part of me loves him but he hurt me and never tried to see me or whatever. I don’t know what to do I tried being friends with mike but he never really liked the idea of just friends because he wants me bad. I don’t want him at all and my boyfriend adam is everything I need. He picked up the pieces of my broken heart and I love him. What should I do about my ex?
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reader, JLAnna  +, writes (4 September 2010):
I also agree with CaringGuy and he should not be given a chance. Don't pick up the phone and ignore him. Eventually it will stop and he will find someone else.
He regrets what he did to you or he wants you back, but the fact is you are much happier with someone else.
You can change your number if it doesn't cost you money. Good luck
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reader, TimmD +, writes (3 September 2010):
 CaringGuy is right. Don't even give your ex an opening to get his foot in the door. The best way is to completely ignore him. He had his chance and lost it. If you talk to him at all, even just to be nice to him he will look at it as making progress. Don't give him any kind attention and he will eventually go away.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 September 2010):
Stop talking to him. Just don't answer the phone, or put it down. Cut him out of your life.
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