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writes: ok am 15...and i move with one of my 20 year old cousin becuz o got in a fight with my mom.so i came to live with her.and i met his bf,(sorry)but he is kute.anyways and their going 2 have a bby.but i been noticing dat my cousin bf likes me.cuz (idk maybe is just me)but he tris 2 touch,nothing bad.ex my hands,my shoulders,my hips.anyways and he always asked me question about my bfs,about me.and the big clue is dat last time he told me dat he dream dat he was kissing me.look he is kute,and i'll take a shot with him,but if he would't be my cousin bf.i just don't know wat 2 do..i don't want 2 pay my cousin wrong after all she's done 4 me...should i put a stop 2 it,or should i continue??help me??
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): WEll family comes first always... And your cousin took you in so it wouldn't be good to mess with her boyfriend and that's just messed up if you did that to her after she's letting you stay in her home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): I cant understand what you are saying.Learn to write english properly first.
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (3 September 2010):
Honey, you SHOULDN'T, for ANY reason, interfere in your cousin's relationship. BUT, if he keeps hitting on you, you need to tell your cousin. Her cousin has the right to know what kind of man she's gonna have the baby with. I understand, you're at this critical age and you tend to fall for every guy who's giving you some attention, but it's very important to talk to him about this. This isn't about you anymore, this is about your cousin's future with a guy who probably will cheat on her (not necessary with you, but any other girl). So, from now on, if he keeps touching you - not every touch means that he's making advances to you though, you should inform your cousin about it. Your cousin might not even believe you, a 15 y/o girl, instead of a man who's going to make a future with, so try to approach this subject in a mature way. I'm sure you'll do fine. If this guy is really hitting on you, he's not worthy of your cousin. Or you. Good luck!
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