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writes:He dumped me after 6 months.I met this man online. We started meeting in my place.We never been anywhere else.He used to come at my place every Friday and drink stay over for the night.I enjoyed his company as I am lonely woman.I work 40 hours a week have a 7 years old daughter.I still agreed to stay up every Friday night and provide him a safe place to drink and free sex.Next morning he would leave and don't even bother to call to say thank you or what happen last night or anything like that.We continued that way for six months.Until he started to drunk dial me at least twice a week.I got upset and disconnected my number then called next day and told him it is over.Then I felt bad and call him and told him that is not what I want I love him and want him to continue seeing him.He told me he needs some time to him self and will call me when he is ready.I waited for a week nothing happen.So I called him 9 am he was sleep. He got upset and told him that he could not talk now and he needs to sleep as he needs to get ready for work at 12 noon,I called back an hour later and he was very ugly and I told him I love you and I want him to come back to me he hung up the phone. At night I kept calling his number could not fight the desire to call him and left him love songs on his message never called me to respond about the message.I am confused He used to tel that he loved me and he was going to merry me, even though he never introduce me anyone in his life.I called him again Sunday we talked a little this time he was calmer and told me he needs to go to bed. and thats my story what should I do I feel like he is mad that I confronted him about his drunk dialing any advice would be gratefull thank.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank for the reply. He came knocking my door last night totally wasted. He kept complaining that I disconnected my phone and told him when I was breaking with him if he ever comes to my house that I will call the police on him. He kept saying how could you, the only girl that I ever loved would want call the police on me. I told him that I would never call the police on him, but that he needs to get a handle of his drinking problem. He said he is working on that. He is not happy with his job, and his boss and everyone that works for that company is mean to him. He also said he is having family problems that causes him to drink.When I ask the details about the family problem, he did not give me anything particular, just that he is a man who is full of disappointments and hurts everyone in his life. He told me that he needs me and asked me never to break up with him again. After few hours he asked me to drive him to his place. He asked me to cook for him some dinner. I did, called him at night and he told me he was tired and does not feel like leaving his place. I am confused. When he is drunk he loves me, but when he is sober he does not want anything to do with me. Thanks I just wanted to express my my unhapiness.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): im in total agreeance it would be unhealthy for the both of you to get back together
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): This is a toxic relationship - do each other a favor and don't get back together.
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