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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:oky long story shortme and my boyfriend were suppost to hang out n the weekend. on a saturday then all of a sudden he told me he could only hang out for two hoours becase he had a wedding to go to. i dont believe it though bcause he would have known about that ahead of time. and this is not the first time that when we make plans he bails out. so i was like its cool ill just see u another time. friday he texted me and i asked him why do u always or it sems lke u always find a way out. when i contront him about the truth he wont text back. so i called and he didnt answer. i sent him a text saying oky ignore me he said no im not im busy and il call u back. he never did that day. my phon was off on the weekend. i turned it back on monday morning for school and i got one text from him at 630am asking if im awake. i called at 635am. he didnt answer. i sent him a text saying yeah i am i called u but u didnt pick up and now i havnt heard from until now. im so sad. i see picture him eevrywhere i go. what happened what do I do
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (6 September 2010):
 I need more information. I thought I had a handle on this but the age difference complicates everything. He could be shifty because he is playing you. He may be upset about you controlling access. I'd still think that 5 missed dates and no contact says it's over. The whole thing doesn't make sense. At 30 I wouldn't put up with what you are putting him through. On the other hand I never dated someone ten years or 12 years younger than me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2010): let me make the story more clear. we never fought when we hung out. we were on and off several times, and the reason we were is because he always bailed out on me. then he comes back and says i need u i miss u but this is the first time he doesn't text back. hes 31 and im 19 if that helps.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (4 September 2010):
You do realize, that you two don't really communicate. You fight, you spar, whatever. It seems obvious that he doesn't enjoy time with you so he avoids it. 5 in a row I would say he is all gone but the final text. He's just not that into you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): actully sometimes I do especially int he end when my grandpa died. and he knows when i turn it back on i contact him. this isent the first time he bails out on me. the past 5 times we were suppost ot hang out he bailed out every single time. besides why ask if im awake if he wotn talk to me again.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (3 September 2010):
You usually cut yourself off of communications for the whole weekend? You don't trust him and you accuse him. He probably is out looking for a two way relationship.
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