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writes:Me and my boyfriend started going out in april, we just broke up yesterday, he used to tell me he loved me and couldn't live without me, but he dumped me yesterday? and now he wont speak to me. help please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): Attraction is not love. He never really loved you. He probably found a better toy to play with and dumped you on the spot. Many are like him, be careful when you choose your next boyfriend.
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reader, JLAnna  +, writes (4 September 2010):
It probably has nothing to do with you.
Right now it hurts but you are probably much better off without him.
You can ask him for a reason of why he dumped you, but there is nothing you can do about him refusing to tell you why he dumped you.
The best thing you can do is to move on, and he sounds like a jerk. Leave him be, and move on with your life. Someone else better will come along. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2010): Did he give any reasons as to why he broke up with you? I know fading love is hard, I'm having similar troubles but we need to know more to help you. If he just dumped you without any reason he doesn't deserve you. I know you're feeling hurt and confused right now but the best medicine for heartaches is time. Hang in there, he didn't dump you, he lost the most wonderful girl he's ever had, you'll find better than him.
Good luck, don't give up, calm down and step out of the everyday rush.
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reader, SOPHIE'x +, writes (4 September 2010):
 same thing with me. i started going out with my boyfriend in janurary. he dumped me yesterday. i litrally used to do everything for him, lied for him. lost friends for him. never got a thankyou. or anything now i feel like an utter idiot. but i love him tones of course.he used to say the same things to me:(, but i promise you, soon youll think why did i waste my tears and time on him. if he has got the guts to say things like that. and now finished it with you. its not worth it. also the boy i was with, is kind of getting on with 'miss popular' from the school. and me and her arnt really friends. but she always does it to me. sorry this isnt really advice. but the thing is, your probably much better without him. you love him i know. i still love the boy tones. but he doesnt love me at all. when your over him, he'll come running back and will think god im sucha knob! i've missed out on a great girl! make sure you tell me how it goess:)xxx
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reader, DearMe +, writes (4 September 2010):
Your young hun, things like this happen. Guys will say anything at this age. Just move on, and find some one nicer you might go threw 100 guys before you find some one who actually means that they cant live without you, and actually mean it when they say that they Love you.
He sounds like a bit of a jerk anyways, Being so immature as not to even speak to you. Dont run after him, just move on. Good luck xx
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