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writes:i am a 19 years old girl who was in a relation with a 26 year old boy. jus 2 days back i broke up with him. v were in a physical relationship. our relation was of 3 years. i dont kno hw wud i forget him. he had my nude photos n m really scared if he does something wrong with them, i mean some misuse n all. i trsuted him a lot bt now, dre is no point of patching up as i found him cheating with me. help me wat shud i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): I wouldn't worry about it too much. He probably showed all of his friends the pictures before you ever broke up with him anyways.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 If your ex wants to misuse those photos he has of you, then he will, there's nothing any of us on here can do to stop him. It's very good that you stopped seeing him after you found him cheating, some girls put themselves through hell by staying with a guy who's bad for them.
All you can do is talk to or go and see your ex. Tell him you're not there to get back together, but you want all of your belongings that he may have, anything you leant him, and any photos he has of you. If they're on his computer, make sure he permanently deletes them (this means he deletes them and then goes into his computer's recycle bin icon and deletes them from there too. Then he'll never be able to get those pictures back).
If he refuses and does something with them, you only have to hold your head up high and try and get through it. Yes, it'll be embarassing, but you'll just have to try and get through it. Soon enough, people will forget.
I hope it goes well!
xxx
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