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writes: help! I was with my partner for 5 and a half years and engaged for almost 2 years! We booked our wedding and we also just had a baby, but he recently told me that he no longer feels the same way towards me as he used to. I am really confused as we never got to give our relationship a 2nd chance. He doesnt want to give it another go?! i am so confused and don't know what to do!! I love him with all my heart! i am trying so hard not to text him or call him unless it is about our baby. i just don't know what to do? Has anyone been in this situation before?
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reader, jimrich +, writes (14 September 2010):
FOR YOUR BABY'S SAKE
do whatever it takes to make sure your baby is not damaged by bad parenting!
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reader, PinkRose +, writes (3 September 2010):
I was with my ex boyfriend for 8 years when one day when he drove me home he told me that he loves me but not as a girlfriend and that he wanted it over. i was very hurt of course but i moved on with my life, went out with family, friends, went to parties, took up exercise to feel better about myself and 3 months after no contact he called me and asked me out. We got back together, all was great but them i saw him for the loser that he is and i dumped him. The point is move on with your life, take care of your baby and yourself and if it's meant to be he'll come back to you:)
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reader, petina1 +, writes (3 September 2010):
Hi, you won't be the first or the last. Bringing up babies is a very hard job to do and some men just don't have the back bone to support the mother or child. You will be amongst the many single parents and its not fun. Makes you wonder what he was there for all that time. If he doesnt want to be with you then you must try and make him responsible for the little child he helped bring into this hard world. I wish you well
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