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writes:I feel hurt by this coment but am i over reacting to it. I have been seeing this guy for over 5yrs now and while i love him dearly he does'nt love me,he's fond of me i know but i don't feel any love from him.he's always txting me everyday without fail at least 3 or 4 times,,calls me 3 or 4 times a week but he will never say anything romantic to me.and while i tell him how much i miss him and that i care about him he never says he feels the same we had a bit of a fight the other day and i told him to go elsewhere, he replied "No I will not,"It's just some of the things he says are so unemotional and it's like he is very guarded with what he says to me.I had been unwell for a couple of days and during that time he had wanted to come see me but i was to ill. but this comment he made to me has really upset me ,He said "Well when your better let me know and i'll see what i can do,"about seeing you, it makes me think he has no feelings at all for me because if he had surely a nicer way of saying it would have been.let me know when you are feeling better because i would love to see you.not i'll see what i can do,I'm starting to wonder if i'm just a convience to him and thats how he really see me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): If you've been seeing each other for five years and he can't express any emotion toward you or even express that he misses you, either he's really just overly guarded of how he feels, or you are just a convenience to him.
Either he will express his feelings about you and try to open up, or you kick him to the curb.
Best of luck.
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