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*aithhopelove
writes:I am very lonely, don't know how I can be, I have four wonderful children... and a husband. However my husband has not told me he loved me for over a year now. We have been having trouble for quite some time. How long do you stay with someone you love if they do not love you? I have very few friends and he is my best friend and not even he will talk to me anymore. What should I do? Should I leave? Should I stay and hope that he will be able to love me again?
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 Talk to your husband first, you may be having problems but you can't know for sure what he's feeling. Let him know you love him, spend time without the kids, just you two and talk things out. If he doesn't want to be with you, maybe take a break for a few weeks, maybe during some serious alone time he'll know whether or not he wants to stay married. You obviously loved each other when you got married, it's hard to believe love just fades because you had a few issues. Maybe go to counselling as a couple? If you love him, don't let him go.
You can do it. I hope it works out for you
xxx
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