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*luvsostupidly
writes:I have been with my guy off and on for last 8 years since my senior year of high school. He was my first love and I thought we were going to get married and have children one day. In recent years we break up for the smallest things, like a phone call from one of my guy friends or he even breaks up with me if I ask him where he has been. I love him so much but all this back and forth honestly makes me sick, I cry for days or weeks and can't eat or sleep. I feel like dying without him but with him I feel so stupid.What should I do fight for the love I want to be with more than life or let go of the guy who uses and unappreciates me? Reply to this Question
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reader, nluvsostupidly +, writes (4 September 2010):
nluvsostupidly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow thanks for all the words of encouragment. It's not like I didn't think the same way as many of u said but I just love him so much that its hard to let go of him. But at this point I have to do something cuz i can't go on like this I think I will try and get the nerve to try some of u guys,suggestions.
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 Don;t contact him, and only respond politley to his messgaes. and be too busy to see him Hopefuly this will scare him, and he may change his behaviour. He is taking you for granted. he needs to learn.
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reader, desperate23  +, writes (3 September 2010):
Let him go. You're just going to keep getting hurt more and more.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 September 2010):
You need to let him go. Time after time, all you will do is break up, get back together, then break up, then get back together. No relationship can survive on that at all. He's not a great guy at all, and this won't work out. You need to let him go.
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