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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey there,Just wanted some opinions on my situation. My Bf and I have been together for about 5 months and when its going good its great, when its bad, its terrible!During this time he has accused me of looking at another guy when out watching a band (the bands lead singer?!) Got angry with me when he found out i had a fling with a guy he knows, 6 months before i even met him, gone off at me for messaging my ex boss out of politness to a question he asked (i quit with the boss because he was verbally sexually harrasing me but is it up to my bf to controll who i speak to?), misinterpreted a message i sent tohim and got nasty and abrupt at me. I also caugh him sending a message to a girl he was "best friends with" saying he wanted to sleep with her one day. After him crying thinking i was going to break up with him and saying he would never message her again or catch up i again caught him having lunch with her 2 weeks later.I know all this makes him sound like a terrible person but like i said when its good its great he treats me like im everything we have everything in common and we generally get along great. But this "temper" kind of thing his got going is very unatractive and im starting to doubt wether this relationship will work? I cant bring things like this up easily because he is overly sensitive and almost seems to have an "im always right attitude"Has anyone else been in a situation like this, i feel i do love him is this something we can work out together or is his short temper going to keep on coming out?Thanks heaps :)
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 Shame on you, dating a toddler. He ain't a toddler? Then why is he acting like a little kid.
Sounds to me like you are describing someone who has trouble moderating his actions and responses. He does what he wants, burtst in tears when mommy corrects him and demands perfection.
The good times are good but the bad times are bad... yes, that is how things usually are. You got to ask, do the good times make up for the bad times. I doubt they will, but it is your life. If you want to constantly adjust to this guy, go right ahead.
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