A
male
age
30-35,
*.Gentleman
writes:Hey everybody, I have a serious problem that I hope I can find help with....For the past month, I have been beating myself up thinking that my gf might be cheating on me, I have talked to her about it sometimes, and she always says that she is only ever inlove with me. But then I see how she acts around other men, and is even recieving odd pics from people I never know. She has also got into the habit of staying up late and talking to this man Frank, or "Franky" as she refers to him, and just found out after they have been doing this for 2 weeks that she has been chatting with him every night. Then this event that just recently happened (the reason I decided to ask for help now) is that she told me that she was going to the movies with some friends this weekend, I asked who was coming, and then she instantly just came clean and told me that she was just going to the movies with some guy she knew when she was a kid.... I might be paranoid, but she first lied to me... then admits she is going to watch some movie with a childhood friend, I dont know what hurts more, that she lied, or that she even thought of saying yes to going to the movies alone with him.... What should I do??.... I love her more than anything in the world... but I'm not sure anymore.... Please help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): Hello dear,
I definitely understand your concerns. I'm not sure how long you guys have been together, but regardless, she should be a little more honest with you and tell you the truth. The fact that she's with you but chatting with other guys, in my opinion, is very suspect and disrespectful. I have been in your shoes and I know that its hard to be with someone and not be able to trust them. I really think that if you really love this girl, and she sincerely loves you, then you should sit down and talk and work it through. Tell her your dislikes and see what she says. If she really loves you, then she will respect that. Technology these days, like texting, instant messaging, facebook, etc., has ruined lots of relationships so I think you need to keep an eye out and don't let it ruin yours hun.
Take care.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): I would tell her that talking online to strange men or going on dates with other men is not acceptable and if she wants a relationship with you then she won't do it. And follow through if she does. You don't need this. Trust me it will get worse if you don't do something about now and that kind of girl is not a keeper.
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