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writes:I feel like crap.... Okay here is the situation: I have a girlfriend and she has a brother. I love her dearly and been with her for about 10 years. Well we have been fighting a lot and her mother wanted to kick me out because of our arguing. Her brother has no knowledge of us being in a relationship together. I'm afraid of getting kicked out of the house. He asked me to give him head just to know the answer yes or no. then he said, "There will be nothing different between us and no one has to know." I said "I don't know..." Then he said well if you do it since my word is greater -- his mom Loves her son... almost more than my girlfriend, and he always gets anything out of his mother. Well then he said, "If you do say yes I will tell my mom to let you stay and you will never have to worry." I want to be with my girlfriend because I love her and love being with her even though we fight. Then he said, "If you don't I will tell my mom to not keep you here because it would be weird being around you and because I failed." I didn't want to do it at all because I hate cheaters... my girlfriend had cheated on me (with a guy) but she is working on it and I have faith we can get through it. I didn't want him to tell his mom to get me to leave so I did give him oral sex... I gagged and felt humiliated... but I don't want to get kicked out.... I'm so confused D: Please help me and thanks...
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (6 September 2010):
 So basically you've given him another handle to blackmail you with?
Move out, take the girl with you. If she doesn't come, move out anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): This is an impossible situation, you need to find your own place. If you get your own place, then you can be in a a relationship with who ever you want. You will be completely at the mercies of this brother from now on...if you dont do what he wants, when he wants, he will tell mommy to kick you out. You cannot win this war, so just get out. mal
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reader, Faithhopelove  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 GET OUT NOW!!! The control in that household will only get worse. If she doesn't move with you... Leave and take care of you!!!
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